The Power of Passion (Part I)

Is it me or are people more and more blinded by the feelings of lust...has intimicy become a moment of programmed movements of animal insticts...where is the magic behind it all?? Has the roles been designated only to the instruments of sex?? where is the passion ??
Unfortunetely it's true....it's hard to find a moment of true passion with someone.....you hope that it would eventually grow..but it should be innate and exist just as anything else...What's the purpose of people having random sex when it's really not meaning anything at all -when doing feels just as monotone as when it comes to its end, what's the use? People are actually living a lie in sex, where the quantity exists but the quality never is acquianted for, and better yet, what is the reason to "Just DO IT???" (yes i know i sound like the nike commercial)
It is the ChoKpelukian way to balance it all, this includes the act of love...Passion, as it's main and most powerful instrument, is necessary for its' development...and it exists in each and every one of else....it is truly innate !!! But most people seem to block it out and believe in passion in a superficial way so deeply, that when they are lucky enough to feel but even a glimpse of true passion, their emotions are activated and pulsed to think in many unknown directions...but this much is true in all cases - it allows you to recognize that there is more then just meets the eye. Hopefully you open your eyes and allow yourself to get more and more involved with these inner feelings and allow passion to guide the way to the actual colors of love.
Don't get me wrong, passion is just an instrument of love, not love in itself.....love is much more complex - yet with passion you can appreciate what is truly beautiful in the eyes of your partner and in yourself.
I suggest to all that have felt these sudden urges of passion, to allow it to be and to learn to co-exist with its' natural flow. Don't get scared, and allow it to open your eyes to feel what your partner is feeling and balance these emotions out to compensate each other to a degree of ultimate desiree. When encounters can be made this great....why settle for anything less?
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Now, keep in mind that passion can be used in many more ways then just "the art of love making", it is essential in your life for everything you do, like for example.....people should make their meals with passion, watch what they really like on tv, enjoy a good book, intensify your conversations, indulge yourself in tasty food and even explode your moments of self-pleasure...As long as you keep passion alive you can clearly appreciate the simplicities life has to offer...

What's the point of living....if you can't feel alive !!!!

Life is all about taking risks, whatever regards it may be, let it be with your professional development, social interaction, lovelife, or within yourself. Only by risking it all can you truly understand what needs to be done to accomplish your goals. If you always try to avoid whatever situation you are confronted with, you will never know the outcome of it, and ultimetely, it will never become a lesson for your own greater good.
Remember....every problem has a solution, cause if not - it wouldn't even be a problem...so grab your "problems" (or unique situations)...tell them to fuck off... and move on with your life... dont limit yourself to what is around you and holding you back, keep moving forward and always remember that you are as great as you want to be....it's YOUR CHOICE !!!
ChokPeluk Inc.

The art of conversation !!!

As defined by www.dictionary.com , conversation is an "informal interchange of thoughts, information, etc., by spoken words; oral communication between persons; talk; colloquy" and also "the ability to talk socially with others".
This is my definition of conversation - "the ability to capture, analize, understand and accept the other person(s) you are interacting with". Remember words and gestures are a powerful instrument and can be used in any manner imaginable. So considering the above mentioned, what is it about conversation that makes us be...
Simple - it allows you to understand someone's feelings, emotions, concerns, troubles, etc, etc, etc., but to get to that point, you need to be able to have a conversation within yourself. Yes !!, as crazy as it sounds, if you dont "capture, analize, understand and accept" your own thoughts, then how do you think that you will be able to understand someone else's?
Truth is, you won't, you will continue to live a lie where you will be misguided by external ideas not originating from your own nature and eventually you will get so caught up in this reality that your own feelings start to alienate the person whom you really are.
So I've come up with three simple guidelines to learn to listen to yourself:
1- Sit, lay down, run, etc - do whatever makes you relax so you can start listening in to the ideas flowing thru your head. These are usually dealt by your sub-concious, but very easy to tap in to.
2- Start filtering all these thoughts in order of importance. Trust me - if you know what's good for you and if you allow your true instincts to help you, you will most likely make the correct choice as to which situation you are trying to handle.
3- Never EVER look at your ideas as something negative - it doesn't matter what situation you are in, there is ALWAYS a way to find its solution and have a positive outcome.
If you can follow and ACCEPT these 3 guideline (or at least the symbolism behind them) you will slowly develop a perception of your life that will not only help you evolve, but let you clearly understand the way of thinking of others thru simple conversation.
Like they say: "the eyes are the mirror image of your soul", conversation is the expression of it. Let's us it wisely.