When to kiss...

Do we always know exactly what the precise moment is to kiss? What if there is no moment? What if that kiss that you are so anxious to give is not as rewarding as you expected it to be? There are many reasons for which one might have to establish the foundations on that first kiss or no reasons what so ever, only that gut feeling that at a certain moment you want to feel your hands on another person, bodies compressed and lips locked in what would seem to be a trail of the perfect first kiss (which we should actually call it the "initiation kiss" - cause with my experience, and i assume the experience of my readers, we have shared ONE TO MANY "first kisses"). The mystery of the kiss is infinite, you never know how the other person will react. What if the kiss was not right? What if the receiver does not like the taste of your mouth, or the way you open (or don't open your mouth at all), what if your presumptions of being a great kisser don't work? Is it wrong to feel that maybe you aren't a good kisser even though you know you are. Then the flashes come straight through, you realize it's done....No more going back, that one kiss can change everything, it will either open doors or shut them tight. You shouldn't judge a book by its cover, then why judge a kiss? What if you kissed just to kiss, sounds redundant i know, but what if you were really looking for that kiss not to just be a kiss, you were hoping to activate in yourself some secret powers hidden deep within you... then what, there's nothing then just an interaction of lips and tounges.. When it's all done you hope to see a smile on your receivers face, maybe a hand held tighter or even better, a strong held hug. But what if after the kiss there's nothing there, you're gone. How would you know if anything was right, how would you know if it was worth it. So let's go back to the purpose of this posting: When do we kiss? Do we have to wait until there is an internal urge in your whole body to express this emotion? Do we have to hold it back until you can at least know the persons' name? Where is the pleasure in a kiss if there is no magical spark? OR what if that spark is only activated by that kiss? As i write this i can't get out of my head that i'm probably just giving it to much thought, but i'm not. I haved kissed many but never really felt that magic firework (actually with one person I believe) explode in my system. Is this a normal reaction for me (or anyone who relates to this)? Are we just cold hearted? All i know is that I confess to the world that i want to be swept off my feet by my soul mate and then if i ever have the opportunity in my lifetime to find this person i will then know that when to kiss is no more of an issue but a blessing.